Love Marriage vs. Arranged Marriage





 Relationship Guidance may be required in both types of marriages. But which one is better? Let’s find out. 

According to a astrologer: - The marriage (love marriage or arrange marriage) which goes successful in the end will be treated as good. So the question whether love marriage is better or the arrange marriage is not that important. Success of the marriage is more important but interestingly divorce rate in love marriage is higher as compared to that in arrange marriage. Interestingly in western countries where live-in relationships are more in vogue almost all marriages are love marriages or love cum arrange marriages and there is nothing like purely arrange marriages in those countries but interestingly the divorce rate is also quite high in those countries whereas in countries of Indian subcontinent divorce rate is quite less as compared to that in western countries.


Some youngsters feel that love marriage is better because according to them in a love marriage they can judge a person before getting married. But according to a astrologer a man & a woman fallen in love can't judge each other properly unless & until marriage takes place & they start living together under one roof. Which means real judgment of each other's nature, behavior & other characteristics would take place only after marriage when both start living together under one roof & start dealing with various day to day problems of life or start taking various sorts of responsibilities that come along with marriage.

Moreover people who never got married can not know the actual meaning of marriage unless and until they get married and spend some time in married life. Many youngsters have a misconception that marriage is meant only for romance and sex. Before marriage both of them try to be good in front of each other or keep on trying to impress each other because they have fear that they will lose each other but some time after their marriage they don't worry that much for each other because now they don't have that much fear that they will lose each other. In most of the cases marriage proves to be THE END of a love story & it's not the beginning of any love story.

Majority of youngsters want to have a love marriage because they find some excitement in trying to do it and they consider it as a form of achievement of their lives. Some want to have a love marriage so that after their marriage they can boast in society that their marriage was a love marriage. Surprisingly many such couples start fighting with each other after their marriage but pretend themselves as happy couples in society or on Facebook!!!

Conclusion:

Love marriage is a tough call for surviving into this society and because India consists of several cultures and so a lot of population is very narrow minded and so love marriage is not supported as much as arrange marriage where as arrange marriage is also a high risk because without knowing the person and promising to   stay whole life together is a big thing so one should think twice before taking any such type of big decisions in life.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

3 Business Ideas for Students

Image
  A Confidence Coach can help you generate profitable business ideas. Business Ideas for Students – Everyone knows that college students struggle a lot to get a good job. Unemployment and joblessness are very common today. To overcome this type of situation it is always recommended to start a business at student age either in school or college. Starting a business at student age have many advantages. It will help you to limit your debt liability (Student Loan) as well as help you to handle other financial obligations. You can get exposure to the business at an earlier age which will help you to start something big at a later stage of your life. If you are a student and searching for the best small business ideas with low investment, you are at right place. In this post, I will share  3  Business Ideas for Students  that can be started with zero or low investment. You need to select an idea in a manner so that It will not affect your study time. Business Ideas for students– college or
Read more

Health tips for youngsters to stay fit during Corona

Image
  You can either practise some Natural Health Tips or workout at home using some basic equipment like skipping ropes, dumbbells, etc.  Dr. Giuseppe (Bepi) Raviola, director of mental health at Partners In Health, put together a list of key practices to maintain good mental and emotional health for those asked to stay at home in efforts to prevent further spread of the novel coronavirus, or COVID-19 .   As we enter this new and unprecedented phase of the pandemic, we are inundated with guidelines about how to keep ourselves and our families healthy and virus-free. Yet a key item on the list—social distancing—poses unprecedented challenges to our mental and emotional well being, and requires consideration. The risk may be especially high for our children, who are suddenly cut off from school and friends. How do we as individuals and parents cope without driving ourselves and each other crazy? It’s a question that mental health professionals such as myself are being asked multiple times
Read more

Why Indore is the best city in India

Image
  I did my Internship in Indore and I feel it’s the best city in India. I ndore has been crowned the cleanest city in the country for the fourth time in a row this year. The single most important reason for Indore bagging this title is the combined efforts of the city’s people, its public representatives and government officials. Indore’s journey is inspiring, and the steps it took are now being followed by many cities in India and across the globe. When Indore started working towards this in 2016, it had many challenges to face. Municipal waste management systems and processes were not in place, and infrastructure was negligible. There were no material recovery facilities, transfer stations and processing units. Composting facilities were non-operational. The unorganised trenching grounds had over 13 lakh tons of legacy waste, which were causing methane-induced fires, bad odour, and attracted disease-causing insects. Only about 5 per cent of the city saw door-to-door waste collection
Read more